When we were in our 20es we would have bbqs on the beach. And dance surf, garage music all night long. Although later The Man put a stop to our fun..
We turned 30, but still we did go ahead and have a few even after the law was against us. But it became a logistic issue to meet all at once with friends living all over the place.
Now i mainly have a bbq either alone or with a couple of friends or my fiance, ‘in the family’.
Its good fun to get messy, laugh, drink, and eat great food.
In a way, it is us going back to the premieval campfire and eat game. A refreshing way to go back to our roots, to the basic, early, true meaning of REWARD.